Marriage, Faith & Enneagram
Larissa Interviews Kim
We flipped the script for this episode of Flip Your Lid. Larissa, Kim's wife, interviews her about being gay, married, and Christian. They discuss what really flipped Kim's lid, how to "rupture and repair" in relationships, how the enneagram helps us understand ourselves and how other people experience the world, and so much more.
Resources that are discussed in this episode:
Enneagram "The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery" by Suzanne Stabile & Ian Morgan Cron
Attachment Theory: www.dianepooleheller.com and Attached by Dr. Amir Levine
Window Of Tolerance: Flip My Lid & Window of Tolerance Dr. Daniel Siegel
Imago Relationship Therapy: Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen Hunt https://harvilleandhelen.com/
John & Julie Gottman "Bids For Connection": https://www.gottman.com/
Emotional Regression: "Growing Yourself Back Up" by John Lee
Kim Honeycutt. MSW, LCSW, CCFC, LCAS: "But Your Mother Loves You" by Kim Honeycutt www.icuTalks.org
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But Your Mother Loves You is the witty and candid tale of how a renowned psychotherapist moved from “not good enough” to “the right person” despite childhood neglect and a toxic relationship with her mother.
Everyone knows at least one person who demonstrates toxic love, someone who consistently jabs a straw in others and sucks the life right out of them. Without an in-depth understanding of how to navigate these relationships, most people continue to emotionally regress and remain paralyzed in familiar, pain-soaked patterns. But Your Mother Loves You helps readers overcome this cycle of toxicity.
Kim Honeycutt shares the real-life experience of how a shame-based, self-destructive little girl grew up to be a recovered alcoholic, entered the world of psychology as a professional, and created her own strategies to address and conquer toxicity.
This story, both witty and practical, is told through the lens of personal life experience and expert psychological strategies combined with Godly intervention. Readers learn how to either walk away from or walk with a toxic loved one without losing themselves. Covered in both vulnerability and clinical information, But Your Mother Loves You provides a step-by-step approach on how to stop toxic love and the subsequent self-abuse.