Flip Your Lid S4 Ep 04 - Dr. Cocchiola on Coercive Control and Narcissism


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After Kim heard Dr. Christine Cocchiola on the world-famous leading narcissistic expert Dr. Ramani's podcast, she had to talk to Dr. Cocchiola, and you'll understand once you listen to the podcast.

Their conversation goes deep into understanding coercive control, narcissism, and how it affects individuals, especially in the challenging landscape of family court battles. Dr. Cocchiola shares her advocacy journey, drawing from personal and professional experiences.

Throughout the podcast, they shed light on the subtle signs of abuse, delve into topics like schema theory, and discuss the long-lasting effects of trauma. Plus, they tackle misconceptions about parental alienation syndrome, which is so crucial in family court settings.

Here's a sneak peek into what they discuss:

* Exploring the impact of coercive control and narcissism

* Debunking myths surrounding parental alienation syndrome

* Advocating for a broader understanding of abuse dynamics

* Navigating legal challenges in cases of abuse

* Finding paths to healing and empowerment

About Dr. Cocchiola: 

Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, a Board Member of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence and a Founding Member of the International Coercive Control Conference. She has actively supported codifying coercive control as the foundation of domestic abuse, writing policy briefs supporting these efforts and providing expert testimony at legislative hearings. Most importantly, through her own experiences as a protective parent, her clinical expertise as a trauma trained therapist, a researcher and educator, Dr. Cocchiola understands the impact that coercive control has on both adult and child victims. A college professor teaching in social work for over 20 years, she has created various programs to educate protective parents and court professionals on best practices to support these vulnerable populations.

Connect:

https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/

IG: @dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol

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